Cruise life can feel like a floating paradise—cocktails at sunset, island-hopping by day, and endless buffets. But if you’re setting sail for the first time, there’s a secret code of behavior no one puts in the brochure. These unspoken rules of cruise ship etiquette can mean the difference between a smooth-sailing vacation and awkward glances from fellow passengers.
Here are 20 unwritten rules every cruiser should follow to blend in and cruise like a pro.
1. Be Kind to the Crew—Always
Your stateroom attendant, the dining staff, and every smiling face you see onboard work tirelessly to make your trip memorable. A simple “hello,” “thank you,” or “how’s your day?” goes a long way. And if you ever need help from Guest Services, keep it calm—kindness gets results.
2. Always Grab a Fresh Plate at the Buffet
Don’t reuse plates at the buffet—even if you’re saving the planet. Reusing plates spreads germs, and staff will happily clean your table between visits. Just head back for seconds with a clean slate—literally.
3. Don’t Be a Chair Hog
If you’re tempted to reserve a lounger by the pool at 7 AM only to show up at noon… don’t. Hogging poolside seats for hours with a towel and flip-flops is one of the quickest ways to annoy other passengers. Some cruise lines now remove unattended items after a set time. Be considerate and take only what you plan to use.
4. Practice Patience—Lines Happen
Cruising means sharing space with thousands of fellow travelers. Whether it’s breakfast at the buffet or waiting for the FlowRider, patience is key. Everyone’s on vacation—no shoving required.
5. Let People Exit the Elevator Before You Enter
This rule is cruise ship gold. Don’t bulldoze into elevators as soon as the doors open. Let people out before stepping in. Better yet, take the stairs and earn your next dessert.
6. Respect the Quiet in Cabin Hallways
It might be 2 PM to you, but someone nearby is napping after a morning excursion. Keep voices low in hallways, especially at night. And skip the loud music—it travels through those thin cabin walls.
7. Listen When the Captain Speaks
When announcements come over the PA system, pause your poolside chatter and listen up. It could be about changes to port times, canceled shows, or onboard updates you don’t want to miss.
8. Don’t Share Your Drink Package
It’s tempting to slide your drink over to a friend, but sharing your beverage package is a strict no-no. Get caught, and you could lose it—without a refund. Packages are per person, not per cabin, and cruise lines take this rule seriously.
9. Be on Time for Shore Excursions and Reservations
This should be the basics of cruise ship etiquette. Running late to your booked tour? You might get left behind—no joke. Show respect for others by showing up on time, whether it’s for a shore excursion, dinner reservation, or onboard show.
10. Know Your Limits with Alcohol
Unlimited drinks don’t mean unlimited sense. Overindulging leads to drama, seasickness, and regrets. Stay hydrated, pace yourself, and save yourself the embarrassment (and potential ejection from the ship).
11. Dress for the Occasion
Formal night isn’t the Oscars, but a clean shirt or cocktail dress goes a long way. Skip the swimwear in dining areas and avoid clothing that’s too revealing—especially around kids. Theme nights? Not mandatory, but totally fun.
12. Never Throw Anything Overboard
This is serious. Tossing trash into the ocean is both harmful and illegal. Cruise lines are cracking down on environmental damage. Use bins provided and help protect our seas.
13. Supervise Your Kids
Kids can roam free at the onboard kids’ club, but that doesn’t mean the rest of the ship is a playground. Be aware of where your children are and make sure they’re not disturbing others.
14. Avoid Loud Conversations in Shared Spaces
Whether it’s the solarium, a quiet deck, or your stateroom balcony, not everyone wants to hear your life story. Keep the volume down and enjoy the serenity.
15. Don’t Overstay at Dining Tables
Once you’re done with dessert, don’t linger too long—especially in high-demand specialty restaurants. Other guests are likely waiting, and your server is ready to flip the table.
16. Keep Swimwear in Pool Areas Only
Walking through the ship in dripping wet swimwear is frowned upon. Dry off and cover up before heading to the buffet or exploring inside areas.
17. Follow the Rules During Muster Drill
Safety drills are mandatory—and short. Don’t skip them, talk through them, or treat them as optional. Pay attention. You’ll be thankful you did in an emergency.
18. Respect Personal Space
Cruise ships pack in people, but that doesn’t mean you should get in someone’s face in a hot tub or buffet line. A little spatial awareness goes a long way.
19. Don’t Cut in Line—Anywhere
Whether it’s tenders, breakfast, or the theater, queue-jumping is universally despised. Wait your turn like everyone else and keep things friendly.
20. Bring a Positive Attitude
Last but not least—bring good vibes. Smile. Say thank you. Laugh often. Cruising is more enjoyable when everyone contributes to the floating community spirit.
Cruising is a dream vacation for many—and knowing how to blend in with seasoned sailors makes it even more enjoyable. These cruise ship etiquette tips may be unspoken, but they’re essential for smooth sailing. Keep them in mind, and you’ll earn smiles instead of side-eyes on your next voyage.
Bon Voyage!
Still looking for some no-no on a cruise ship? Why not try this article here.
Check on YouTube